Letter from the pup

letter from pup

An open letter from the pup (courtesy an email forward)

I am your Puppy and I will love you until the end of the Earth, but please know a few things about me.

I am a Puppy, this means that my intelligence and capacity for learning are the same as an 8-month-old child. I am a Puppy; I will chew EVERYTHING I can get my teeth on. This is how I explore and learn about the world. Even HUMAN children put things in their mouths. It’s up to you to guide me to what is mine to chew and what is not.

I am a Puppy; I cannot hold my bladder for longer than 1 – 2 hours. I cannot “feel” that I need to poop until it is actually beginning to come out. I cannot vocalize nor tell you that I need to go, and I cannot have “bladder and bowel control” until 6 – 9 months. Do not punish me if you have not let me out for 3 hours and I tinkle. It is your fault. As a Puppy, it is wise to remember that I need to go potty after: eating, sleeping, playing, drinking and around every 2 – 3 hours in addition. If you want me to sleep through the night, then do not give me water after 7 or 8 pm. A crate will help me learn to housebreak easier, and will avoid you being mad at me.

I am a Puppy, accidents WILL happen, please be patient with me! In time, I will learn.

I am a Puppy, I like to play. I will run around, and chase imaginary monsters, and chase your feet and your toes and ‘attack’ you, and chase fuzz-balls, other pets, and small kids. It is play; it’s what I do. Do not be mad at me or expect me to be sedate, mellow and sleep all day.

If my high energy level is too much for you, maybe you could consider an older rescue from a shelter or Rescue group. My play is beneficial, use your wisdom to guide me in my play with appropriate toys, and activities like chasing a rolling ball, or gentle tug games, or plenty of chew toys for me. If I nip you too hard, talk to me in “dog talk”, by giving a loud YELP, I will usually get the message, as this is how dogs communicate with one another. If I get too rough, simply ignore me for a few moments, or put me in my crate with an appropriate chew toy.

I am a Puppy; hopefully you would not yell, hit, strike, kick or beat a 6-month-old human infant, so please do not do the same to me. I am delicate, and also very impressionable. If you treat me harshly now, I will grow up learning to fear being hit, spanked, kicked or beat. Instead, please guide me with encouragement and wisdom. For instance, if I am chewing something wrong, say, “No chew!” and hand me a toy I CAN chew. Better yet, pick up ANYTHING that you do not want me to get into. I can’t tell the difference between your old sock and your new sock, or an old shoe and your expensive new sports shoe.

I am a Puppy, and I am a creature with feelings and drives much like your own, but yet also very different. Although I am NOT a human in a dog suit, neither am I an unfeeling robot who can instantly obey your every whim. I truly DO want to please you, and be a part of your family, and your life. You got me (I hope) because you want a loving partner and companion, so do not relegate me to the backyard when I get bigger, do not judge me harshly but instead mould me with gentleness and guidelines and training into the kind of family member you want me to be.

I am a Puppy and I am not perfect, and I know you are not perfect either. I love you anyway. So please, learn all you can about training, and puppy behaviours and caring for me from your veterinarian, books on dog care and even researching on the computer! Learn about my particular breed and it’s “characteristics”, it will give you understanding and insight into WHY I do all the things I do. Please teach me with love, patience, the right way to behave and socialize me with training in a puppy class or obedience class, we will BOTH have a lot of fun together.

I am a Puppy and I want more than anything to love you, to be with you, and to please you. Won’t you please take time to understand how I work? We are the same you and I, in that we both feel hunger, pain, thirst, discomfort, fear, but yet we are also very different and must work to understand one anther’s language, body signals, wants and needs. Some day I will be a handsome dog, hopefully one you can be proud of and one that you will love as much as I love you.

Love, Your Puppy
J.Ellis

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11 thoughts on “Letter from the pup”

  1. Aches my heart to see how you feel the need to tell. Now, I want to cuddle all the puppies, kiss them, hug them, make them lick and tell them it’s okay to pee on my lap.

  2. Dear Puppy,

    Please tell your hoomin that he’s a great hoomin and please thank him on behalf of other caninophile hoomins for taking care of you and understading your feelings so heartwarmingly well.
    In Bangalore, India, where I live, we have many Independent Canine Personages, also known as “stray dogs”. Actually they never stray, those good canine ladies and gentlemen. Most ethical they are and they mind their own business. When, occasionally, some hoomins stop and shower them with some affection, they most expressively display abundant satisfaction and gratitude. And yet there are also some people who keep complaining of something called “stray dog menace” and want them culled and killed. Sad state of affairs, Puppy.
    Count yourself lucky that you have a good hoomin companion, Puppy.
    Here’s hoping more people will feel as your hoomin feels!
    Peace on Earth and Goodwill Towards All Living Beings!!

    1. Dear Human,

      At a point in time when most specimens of your species have moved beyond dogs to gadgets as their new best friends, your words are a warm welcome for
      us canines. I have heard of the oft media covered mournful state of civility in Bangalore where mass hysteria against dogs is a natural trait of late. But I am sure that in citizens like you, my friends there have a caring touch, a warm pat on the back that’s just around the corner.

      Love to all my homeless friends!

  3. My puppy seems to be like you are. White and black, with high energy level, a loving partner, not perfect, but so sweet!

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